As our generation becomes more detached from traditional values, it seems that promiscuity and infidelity also became more ubiquitous. The way modern pop culture trivially portrays committed relationships on TV, films, and books have unfortunately seeped through the consciousness of many people. The looming pervasion of such a twisted culture has made many of us desensitized to the idea of cheating and casual sex.
The concept of cheating, however, is often only associated with men. There is a widely accepted notion that only men are capable of cheating and that women are always the victim. But in actuality, cheating knows no sex or gender. Both men and women are equally capable of having an affair outside of their respective relationships.
As if preventing infidelity is not already hard enough as it is, it can be a lot more difficult if you are planning on dating foreign women because distance can certainly be a game changer in a relationship. But regardless of what your circumstances are, cheating and remaining faithful is always a choice and a decision, however, we cannot also deny that when you are in the face of temptation, the odds of you making the wrong choices becomes significantly higher. So to help you and your partner prevent a third party affair in your relationship, here are 3 things you should always keep in mind as a couple:
Maintaining good communication is always essential in every relationship. Establishing an environment where both of you can talk honestly with each other is the key toward keeping a healthy relationship. It creates an open avenue for both of you to talk about what you like and dislike about your relationship.
Whether your communication medium is face-to-face, virtual, or through a foreign marriage agency, you still have to make the best out of your conversations together. This way, you can grow together and improve your relationship. As a result, it prevents the other person from considering the idea of looking for someone else.
In the course of your relationship, you will grow familiar with one other. You will feel more comfortable having each other around and this is where the phrase “familiarity brings blindness” comes in. As months turn to years, you are bound to get so used to each other that you’ll end up overlooking the things that both of you once appreciated from one another.
If left unchecked, this is when boredom will start to seep through your relationship. However, it doesn’t have to be that way. Once you feel like your affinity and intimacy towards each other are slowly fading away, remember what made you fall in love in the first place. This way, you will learn to continually appreciate each other and avoid seeking affection and appreciation from someone else.
Making sure that intimacy in your relationship will not completely fade is essential if you’re dating a Latina. These women are notably passionate when they’re in love, making them less susceptible to losing intimacy compared to other women. So make sure to reciprocate her passion and commitment.
Treat your partner as your confidant and be the same to her. Don’t keep any secrets from each other and always maintain transparency. This will help you avoid making unnecessary and unhealthy speculations about each other that often grow into irreconcilable fights. This is especially true if you’re dating or are married to an Asian woman.
Most of them are not as expressive in comparison to other women. But if you only take the lead in making her confide in you by also confiding in her, she will certainly follow suit. Due in large part to the patriarchal tendencies of Asian cultures, Asian women usually look to their men to take the initiative on how to make the relationship stronger.
Cheating is always a choice. It is a decision that you, in one way, shape or form, are bound to pay for. If you ever find yourself in the midst of temptation, just remember the law of interaction, which states that “for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”
